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I am a Catch

I have been pondering, over the last couple of days, a rumour, that I heard on the weekend has been going around, that sometime last year I was 'tying on' a certain guy; read: throwing myself at him, giving him time he did not want, stalking him...et cetera. I can't stop shaking my head when I think of these allegations and how untrue they are (especially where this particular guy is concerned).

I am a catch.


I am the JAVAs chocolate fudge cake recipe every chocolate cake lover wants to get a hold of.
I am the Mercedes G 55 AMG every self respecting, Merc loving man in this town wants to drive.







I am the Whitney Houston- type pitch control every diva wishes for.




I have used three analogies and I can think of many more. Because, let's face it, I- am- more.

As I grow older, I begin to acknowledge (more like accept) that I am a pretty unique/ special person. This acknowledgement does not mean I think more highly of myself than I ought to or that I shove my opinions down people's throats, it just means that I 'allow'. I 'allow' that I am special :-)- it is okay.
It also means that I am less aggrieved by negative opinions that people may have of me/ my personality.
It means that I recognize that shrinking so that other people will not feel inferior around me is not enlightened.

I am a catch. 'Nuff Said!

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  1. LizaApril 4, 2012 at 7:21 PM

    lol!PREACH!

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  2. Do our Members of Parliament have Character and quality of mindApril 5, 2012 at 12:20 PM

    You start so well then along the way you apologize.

    "This acknowledgement does not mean I think more highly of myself than I ought to or that I shove my opinions down people's throats"

    You ask yourself, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous and talented? Actually, who are you not to be? And whatever you say, say it with conviction

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  3. AnonymousApril 9, 2012 at 2:41 PM

    I like these analogies :-)

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