EkiraboKyampaire

Dear (Dis) Hon. Buck Passer, I started out thinking that the past partners were the 'problem', somehow choosing to disregard the fact that the sower chooses the seed and therefore is responsible to a certain extent for a poor crop. And then, I thought obugahe  was the 'problem'...that the mugahe was inexperienced and insensitive and that the mugahe needed to eat humble pie and learn to be meeker, quieter, more submissive in order to 'fit the purpose'... I have since gradually realized that the buck stops here...at 5268.com and all I can think to say in the circumstances is, grow some balls! (or a vagina, for that matter considering that vaginas world over have been through some nasty things and still come out on top :-) )... Point is, passing the buck has always been dishonourable. It is a sign of immaturity, weakness of character, failure to admit to one's mortality. It is evidence that you think of yourself more highly than you should and are hence...

Dear Sir, You don’t know me, so, maybe that is why you treat me like I am a child, like my brain is soft, like ‘what does she know’… You, clearly, do not know me. Perhaps it is that you have dealt with fickle, weak women for so long that your default settings are such that you relate with me like I am ‘just a woman’… Perhaps it is because you do not actually love me so you are not committed to understanding my psyche…Perhaps it is simply that you are bad mannered and have no notion of how to treat people right…Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps. It’s funny. With the others, I was unhappy that we never seemed to talk about things of ‘substance’ and I was compelled to be content with happy-go-lucky subjects. With you, I am unhappy because even when I seem to be given ‘liberty’ to talk about anything, my opinions are received with such- what is the word?- dismissal? disdain?- that as a result I am no longer too enthusiastic to really express myself the next time. “We have to first...