Dear (Dis) Hon. Buck Passer,
I started out thinking that the past partners were the 'problem', somehow choosing to disregard the fact that the sower chooses the seed and therefore is responsible to a certain extent for a poor crop.
And then, I thought obugahe was the 'problem'...that the mugahe was inexperienced and insensitive and that the mugahe needed to eat humble pie and learn to be meeker, quieter, more submissive in order to 'fit the purpose'...
I have since gradually realized that the buck stops here...at 5268.com and all I can think to say in the circumstances is, grow some balls! (or a vagina, for that matter considering that vaginas world over have been through some nasty things and still come out on top :-) )...
Point is, passing the buck has always been dishonourable. It is a sign of immaturity, weakness of character, failure to admit to one's mortality. It is evidence that you think of yourself more highly than you should and are hence unteachable; and, really, who wants to deal with a mule?
Employers can't stand a mule, friends exclude Miss 'I know-it-all', would be partners would not deign to fall into the trap of never ending 'I am right' arguments, would be business associates would rather not deal with 'Miss Business Acumen'...
In essence, one would rather not be the human with a reputation for passing the buck. I admit, I have passed my fair share of bucks in this life but I have always been aware of my responsibility to, when the dust has settled on the matter, acknowledge my role and to make amends where need be. I have not walked away, nose in the air, pumping my chest in false victory.
I repeat, as soon as is possible, grow some balls.
Best,
Concerned citizen.
I started out thinking that the past partners were the 'problem', somehow choosing to disregard the fact that the sower chooses the seed and therefore is responsible to a certain extent for a poor crop.
And then, I thought obugahe was the 'problem'...that the mugahe was inexperienced and insensitive and that the mugahe needed to eat humble pie and learn to be meeker, quieter, more submissive in order to 'fit the purpose'...
I have since gradually realized that the buck stops here...at 5268.com and all I can think to say in the circumstances is, grow some balls! (or a vagina, for that matter considering that vaginas world over have been through some nasty things and still come out on top :-) )...
Point is, passing the buck has always been dishonourable. It is a sign of immaturity, weakness of character, failure to admit to one's mortality. It is evidence that you think of yourself more highly than you should and are hence unteachable; and, really, who wants to deal with a mule?
Employers can't stand a mule, friends exclude Miss 'I know-it-all', would be partners would not deign to fall into the trap of never ending 'I am right' arguments, would be business associates would rather not deal with 'Miss Business Acumen'...
In essence, one would rather not be the human with a reputation for passing the buck. I admit, I have passed my fair share of bucks in this life but I have always been aware of my responsibility to, when the dust has settled on the matter, acknowledge my role and to make amends where need be. I have not walked away, nose in the air, pumping my chest in false victory.
I repeat, as soon as is possible, grow some balls.
Best,
Concerned citizen.
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